You know, I used to wonder this ALL of the time. Would it really be that hard to have one night stands with women? I don’t mean the kind of women that you can take one look at and know that they would totally be down with casual sex. That’s the kind of woman I like to avoid. Lol, I don’t want to have to go to the clinic to get my shots after a night with a woman. I mean the kind of women you wouldn’t mind having a relationship with and the kind of women that don’t just hook up with guys at bars on Friday and Saturday nights.
What I found was kind of SURPRISING.
It was only hard if you approached it the way that most guys do. By that, I mean that most guys make it dead obvious that the only reason why they are talking to a certain woman is because they are HOPING to get her into bed. She knows it. Her friends that she went out with know it. Those kinds of approaches are really disappointing if you are trying to get a one night stand with a woman.
If you approached things a little bit differently – it wasn’t that hard at all. I’m not talking easy like a 100 percent close rate or anything like that. I mean, easier than I ever would have IMAGINEd it would be.
Here is a little run down on what seems to work:
1) You have to approach her the way that you would if you were looking more for a relationship and less for a one night stand.
Like I said before, when a guy approaches with the hope of getting laid – EVERYONE knows it. That’s not the approach that you want to take. Not on the classy women who are worth having a relationship with, but you just want to have a little bit of fun with. For those women, you still do have to approach them the way that you would if you wanted to have a relationship with her. A little bit of respect and GOOD, WITTY conversation goes a long way. You don’t need to lie and say that you are looking for a relationship, just treat her the way that you would if you were looking for that.
2) You have to POSSESS the SKILLS to make her sexually attracted to you very Fast.
This is a key piece of the puzzle. If you don’t know what you need to do to make a woman feel MASSIVE sexual attraction to you very quickly, then you are going to be out of luck. I’d suggest that you work on that before you go out and try to get a hook up.
3) You also have to already have a classy place to take her back to.
This matters a LOT. Remember, we are not talking about some woman who is used to doing things in the backseat of a Toyota here. We are talking about the kind of woman who would never put herself in that kind of situation at all. That means that you need to be able to have a very classy place to take her back to. It could be your house or apartment – just make sure that you clean it as if you were expecting high caliber company to show up.